Family Meal Times Issue 9: Invite Kids Into the Kitchen

(FN1534, Revised Dec. 2021)
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Cooking can be a recipe for building relationships and learning important life skills.

Lead Author
Lead Author:
Julie Garden-Robinson, Ph.D., R.D., L.R.D., Food and Nutrition Specialist
Other Authors

Kendra Otto, Former Practicum Student, Human Development and Family Sciences; Sean Brotherson, Ph.D., Family Science Specialist

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At the Family Table

Working together in the kitchen can be a satisfying experience for parents and kids. The kitchen provides a perfect learning environment for children while providing a bonding experience for parent and child. Cooking together can be a recipe for building relationships and learning important life skills.

Benefits of Cooking With Children

Cooking with kids takes time, effort and patience, and can be very messy at times. The food may not look as attractive as when you do it yourself; however, the benefits make it well worth the effort. Kids learn some important lessons along the way, such as:

  • Basic cooking skills, including cleanup
  • Reading and math skills as they read recipes and measure ingredients
  • Eating healthfully
  • Self-confidence
  • Self-care and personal responsibility
  • Following directions and cooperation

Learning is not the only benefit children receive while cooking with parents. Studies show that children also are less likely to abuse drugs in the future as a result of spending time with their parents while they
are young.

Safety Comes First

Cooking is fun and safe as long as you teach your kids these tips:

  • Wash hands for 20 seconds before and after cooking and after handling raw meats or uncooked eggs.
  • Rinse fruits and veggies thoroughly with cool, running water before preparing or eating.
  • Avoid sneaking tastes of any food that includes raw ingredients such as eggs.
  • Use dry pot holders when working with warm foods or liquids.
  • Closely supervise the use of knives and other kitchen tools and equipment.

Take time to follow these few tips and you and your child are well on your way to a great cooking experience.

Food and Family Q&A

Question: I have three great kids, ages 3, 6 and 9, who love to help in the kitchen. What are some jobs they can help do?

When considering what jobs your child can help do in the kitchen, always consider safety. Try making a pizza such as the one in the recipe we’ve provided. This easy recipe gives your children the opportunity to help in the kitchen.

For example, allow your 6-year-old to start by spreading the pizza sauce onto each of the tortillas. This can be a difficult task, so remember to be patient. Next, your 3-year-old will have fun sprinkling cheese on each pizza. This could get messy, but remember to be understanding. Once they each have put on the toppings they desire, allow your 9-year-old to carefully put the pan into the oven, with your help, of course. As your children continue to grow older, you may give them more responsibility in the kitchen. Be sure that each child also gets a cleanup task.

A Family Meal Recipe

These tasty individual pizzas create a great opportunity for letting your child help in the kitchen. Let each child make a personal pizza with whichever toppings he or she likes.

Personal Pizzas

4 (8-inch) tortillas

1 (4-oz.) can tomato or pizza sauce

1 clove garlic, minced

1½ c. mozzarella cheese, shredded (part skim)

Chopped veggies of choice, such as colorful bell peppers
(green, yellow, etc.) or mushrooms

1 small onion, sliced

Any other toppings (Canadian bacon is a low-fat meat

Italian seasoning (optional)

Lay tortillas on an ungreased cookie sheet. Spoon tomato sauce over each tortilla. Top with minced garlic. Next, sprinkle each pizza with an equal amount of mozzarella cheese. Layer the cheese with peppers and onions and any other vegetable or toppings you like. Bake at 400 F for 10 minutes or until the cheese is bubbly. Serve.

Makes four servings.
Each serving has 300 calories, 10 grams (g) fat, 17 g protein, 34 g carbohydrate, 3 g fiber and 360 milligrams sodium.

Menu Idea

Personal Pizza, cucumber slices, halved bananas and low-fat milk

Quick Tip

Try a game after dinner tonight. See who can clean up his or her place setting the fastest. Dinner cleanup will be done in a snap, and you will have more time to spend with your family.

Developed by

  • Kendra Otto, Former Practicum Student, Human Development and Family Sciences
  • Julie Garden-Robinson, Ph.D., R.D., L.R.D., Food and Nutrition Specialist
  • Sean Brotherson, Ph.D., Family Science Specialist

For more information NDSU Extension Food and Nutrition

“Eat Smart. Play Hard.” is an initiative of the Food and Nutrition Service, U.S. Department of Agriculture.